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#1. Every morning when you wake up, do 10 Pushups.
Doing exercises in the morning as soon as you wake up is PROVEN to energize and wake your body up for the day. Don’t believe me? Just ask a millionaire entrepreneur. Besides, it’s only 10 reps, you mean to tell me you can’t do 10 pushups in the morning? Exactly.
#2. Wear a bomb ass outfit.
I’ve talked about how important it is to dress well in our other articles when trying to get girls, but it’s equally important for your confidence. It’s hard to feel bad about yourself when you know you’re dressed like a badass, so always make sure you look your best. Also when you dress well, people and girls specifically are more likely to talk to you since it makes you seem like you’re more social and approachable. Hell, I was at a party just this past weekend and I was wearing a brand new shirt that I had just bought a few days before that I knew made me look good and as soon as I made eye contact with a girl, the first thing she said was “I like your shirt.” Boom, the conversation started right there, and from that point, I went into talking with her about other shit and all I had to do was put on a nice shirt.
#3. Talk to somebody new every day.
This one isn’t even that hard, especially if you’re younger and still in school or college. Just start up a conversation with the person next to you about what’s going on in class, homework, or how hot the professor is. You can talk to someone new at work or even just say hi to a random person walking down the street, you don’t have to have a big conversation or anything, just say a few things back and forth, no big deal. Talking to new people makes you feel more confident because you’re constantly forcing yourself to overcome the initial fear of talking to a stranger and proving to yourself that you’re not a pussy. Doing this also makes you a lot more social and experienced when meeting new people, thus making you more confident.
#4. Talk to girls you don’t like or care about.
Now you may be thinking, “Huh? What the fuck are you talking about?” But hear me out, if you’re talking to a girl you don’t care about and she rejects you, stops replying, or just straight up tells you she doesn’t like you, are you gonna care? Noo! But the reason behind talking to girls you don’t care about is to gain experience talking to girls and seeing what works and what doesn’t. This way your practice runs don’t mean anything in the case that you mess up and you still get all the same experience of talking to a girl, so when it does come time to talk to girls you care about, that experience will make you WAY more confident that if you never talked to girls beforehand.
#5 Write down a list of all the things you’re good at.
This one seems a little basic, but it’s sure to make you feel confident as soon as you do it. because you’ll have a bunch of reasons right in front of you as to why you should be confident. Maybe you’re attractive, or athletic, or you have a cool eye color, or a badass hairstyle, or you’re wearing a nice outfit, you’re good at a sport, or a game, you’re really smart, you have a couple of close friends who care about you, you’re really close with your family, you have a lot of money, you’re mature, you’re a nice guy and you’ve helped out a lot of people Whatever it is! Knowing you’re good at a bunch of things makes you feel positive, and people can sense it, and you come off as more confident.
#6. Have something you’re really passionate about and do it every day.
For example, if you play the guitar and you love it, move your practice session to after you get home from talking to girls (or, whatever activity you want to be confident doing). That way when you’re out, you’ll always have something to look forward to. This way you know you have something really positive waiting for you regardless of the outcome of what happens with girls or whatever that day. Also, having something that you care about more than girls also makes you more attractive to them since it shows them that you have other positive shit going on in your life and that you can be successful in the things you do, you’re not needy or dependent, which are 2 of the most unattractive qualities in a person. And that’s it.