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6 Reasons Girls Think YOU Are UNATTRACTIVE!

A LOT of guys really have no idea what the hell they’re doing when it comes to taking care of themselves, talking to girls, or just in general, so in the spirit of making sure you guys aren’t totally ruining up your chances with the female population, we decided to put together a list of things you guys are doing that makes you unattractive.

#1. Dressing like you’re 12 years old.

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Now I’ve said this before unless you’re actually 12 years old, don’t dress like you’re 12 years old. I thought I made it clear but since I see SO many guys still doing it, I thought I’d get really specific. NEVER wear the following out: Basketball shorts – unless you’re working out or playing basketball Those stupid Nike t-shirts with the cheesy sayings on them “BLOOD, SWEAT, TEARS. NO PAIN NO GAIN. 90% BADASS, 10% ALPHA MALE. TOO MUCH SWAG IN THIS GUN SHOW BABY. Please don’t wear a shirt that says that Big ass baggy cargo pants or shorts with huge pockets and loops and straps and things hanging off. Pajama pants – holy f*** I can’t believe I even need to say this one out loud, never wear this unless you’re gonna bring your bed with you too. If you wanna change your style up for cheap, the brands I recommend are ASOS, H&M, Zara, and J. Crew Factory. These places have a ton of dope options for cheap prices, so be sure to check them out.

#2. Mustaches.

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nullNow obviously if you have a beard you’re gonna have a mustache with it as well, but I’m talking about having a creep-stache which is just a mustache with no other facial hair. There are VERY few people who can actually pull it off, so just assume you’re not one of those people. Besides, if you’re younger you won’t be able to grow thick enough facial hair in that area anyway and you’ll just end up looking creepy. You wanna make sure that if you do have facial hair, that it’s well-kept and clean looking, not scruffy and scary looking. At the same time, if you’re going for a clean-shaven look, you want it to be nice and clean, not having stubble of varying lengths all over your face and neck like you’re 11 years old and just got your first razor for Christmas.

#3. Neediness.

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I’ve mentioned this before but NOTHING will turn a girl off faster than you being needy and constantly seeking her approval and attention. Constantly hitting her up via snap, text message, and Instagram is the easiest way to ensure she WON’T like you. Instead, play it cooler, let her text you after you establish a connection, and don’t be afraid to leave the convo first to leave her wanting more.

#4. Flip Flops.

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Again, this is something I should NOT have to tell you but I still see so many young guys going out and about their business wearing flip flops and showing off their disgusting feet. And TRUST ME, nothing is more unattractive than being able to see into someone’s soul through their disgusting toenails or foot hair, you’re better off just not wearing flip flops at all, and saving them for the beach. If you just have to wear slip one, there are tons of better options, like Toms, espadrilles, driving shoes, and slip-on canvas sneakers.

#5. Sweater Vests.

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Again, I absolutely cannot believe I still see people wearing these sometimes. Wearing a sweater vest is the EASIEST way to make yourself look like you’re coming out of a Children’s Place catalog, and unless you’re 7 years old OR 70 years old, then you wanna avoid sweater vests at all costs.

#6. Getting attached way too easily.

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This is even worse than wearing 3 sweater vests and a pair of flip flops at the same time. You know those guys who talk to a girl like ONE TIME and now they’re so into her that they’re checking all her social media, texting her all the time, and not even trying to talk to any other girls because they think they’ve already found “the one”? For Zeus’s sake, bro, STOP IT! Yeah, if you have a girlfriend, don’t cheat on her. But if you haven’t hung out with that one girl multiple times already or if you aren’t even sure she’s into you too, you absolutely should keep your options open. 

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How to Turn A Girl ON Through Conversation

Yo Boys! Biggest questions for the one-sided lover that how to make a girl yours through conversation. In similar word how to turn a girl switch on to start a conversation with you so, here your answer is.

#1 Man The Fuck Up!

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Yeah, you heard me Right! When you approach the girl you like or you’re talking to the girl you like, don’t approach her from the side and do that awkward side talk thing. Remove that! Don’t tiptoe and circle the girl like a vulture when you first go to talk to her. That’s a huge no-no! Show her you’re a man, approach her from the front, square your shoulders up with hers, and make eye contact with her when you introduce yourself.

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A lot of guys are too nervous to just go up and approach a girl like a normal person that they do all these weird things like the approach from the side or from behind and it actually makes you look like a huge creep. Guys do this to be non-threatening and to not weird the girl out but it actually ends up backfiring and making you look like a huge weirdo! These are all defense mechanisms that guys use to avoid doing what they know they should, which is simply going up to the girl like a normal human being and introducing yourself and saying “hey I’m here.” Be assertive, be confident, and be a man! 

#2 Certainty

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This is similar to point #1 about being a man. If you’re out in a nightlife environment, you gotta understand that it is chaotic. There’s music, there’s alcohol, there are tons of people crowded all over the place, there are bouncers yelling at people, and the girl’s friends are all over the place. It’s just chaos and anarchy and there’s a lack of structure and certainty. So when you decide to man up and you show up to the girl and you have certainty in your actions and you lead her and the interaction properly, she’ll be more likely down to hang out with you because she sees you as the person who’s gonna make the decisions and provide certainty in this chaotic environment.

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You should have certainty in your body language, in how you speak, and in your game plan for the night. So if you want to move from the dance floor to the bar with the girl, you should simply say something like “hey let’s head to the bar for a second” and lead her in that direction. If you say it in a nerdy unconfident voice like “hey uh do you wanna maybe uh go to the uh bar” then there’s is no way she’s gonna follow you. She probably won’t even hear you over the blaring loud music! This is why having certainty is so important, it’s a psychological thing that’s really important in the chaos of a bar or a club because it makes the girl feel safe and secure with you. Also, a lack of certainty shows a weak and flimsy personality that girls won’t be impressed by and will see right through. For this reason, certainty in how you speak, carry yourself, and communicate to her is KEY.

#3 Fragrance

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The fragrance you wear and how you smell is absolutely ESSENTIAL to making a girl sexually attracted to you. Whether it’s a daytime environment or a nightlife environment, wearing a strong, seductive fragrance will instantly boost your sexual appeal by a few points in the girl’s mind. Smelling like a boss is KEY, especially if you’re the type of guy who likes to go out and meet girls at parties, bars, and clubs. In nightlife environments like this, having a strong and sexy fragrance will easily separate you from 90% of the guys who smell like sweat and booze, so this way you’ll be MILES ahead of them.

 #4 Vocal Tonality

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A huge part of communication with girls is the sub-communication that’s happening throughout the entire interaction. This is why I always stress the importance of body language and presence when talking to girls. A huge part of this sub-communication is your vocal tonality. Vocal tonality is just the way you speak to someone, BUT, your vocal tonality plays a HUGE role in making a girl attracted to you. The first part about vocal tonality is projection, aka how well your voice projects. When you speak, you should speak from your diaphragm which is located in your stomach, this allows your voice to project better and come off as louder and clearer.

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Projecting your voice like this makes your voice sound way more confident and way more charismatic as opposed to speaking in a normal low tone. The second part about vocal tonality is your tone, now I know, I know, not everybody can have a good voice but speaking in a slightly lower tone signal to the girl that you’re confident and you’re not seeking approval. While speaking in a higher pitch tone is indicative of seeking approval and validation.

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A good rule of thumb is to avoid ending sentences in a higher pitch tone because it indicates that you’re trying to get the other person’s approval or validation. Rather, when you end sentences in a lower pitch tone it indicates that you’re speaking freely and without the filter, aka you’re not trying to get the other person’s approval. Think about how a boss talks to an employee, they typically speak in a lower pitch tone, while an employee speaks in a higher pitch tone to their boss. This sub communication indicates a person’s status so for this reason, it’s better to avoid using a higher pitch tone when speaking to people.

#5 Signal abundance to the girl through humor

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Basically, abundance is when you show the girl that you have an abundance of girls, dope shit, and other people in your life. But showing abundance through humor is a REALLY easy way to get a girl turned on. Not being afraid to say what you want and make jokes that are funny to you shows the girl that you’re not needy because it makes it clear to her that you’re not seeking her approval or trying to change yourself for her. It sounds counterproductive but when you don’t need her approval and don’t care if she likes you, it actually makes her like you more. When you’re comfortable enough with yourself and who you are that you talk about whatever entertains YOU and whatever YOU find funny, girls will flock. When you’re not overly desperate or needy then it makes her like you that much more. And that’s it.

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How to Make Girls CHASE YOU!

Yo-yo, guys today I’m gonna be showing you guys how to make a girl chase you. Let’s jump right into it. First and foremost.

#1 Thing You Want To Signal To The Girl Is Abundance.

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Abundance basically means ‘plentiful’, and you want to signal to the girl that you have a plentiful of hot girls to choose from, and overall a life that’s awesome and worthy of having. This abundance of good shit in your life will show the girl that she’s not the only thing in your life and that you’re not gonna become some needy overzealous who’s constantly gonna seek her approval. Once you signal abundance, the girl will be vying for your attention, as opposed to you competing for hers.

I noticed years ago, that men always end up with exactly the quality of women, that they’re willing to walk away from. The price you pay when you need the attention of a particular woman is: well, you can never have her. One of the most pragmatic things a man can do to indicate abundance to a woman and thus a lack of neediness is to simply engage in irreverent humor. When you feel comfortable enough and entitled enough to speak freely about the things you think are funny with no fear of rejection, girls often get very attracted to you. Sure, some won’t like your sense of humor, but the ones who do, will for sure chase you. When she knows you’re one of those rare guys who isn’t needy or desperate to impress her, then she has to have you!

#2 Assume Attraction.

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This is exactly what it sounds like. Basically, you want to assume and treat the girl like she’s already into you. Assuming attraction is a really good way to interact with girls overall because it prevents you from acting in approval-seeking ways and increases your confidence level subconsciously. Not only that, the way you will begin to act when you assume she’s already into you will make her perceive you as more confident, assertive, and dominant in the relationship… All qualities that will draw her to you and make her want you even more. It’s extremely important to be a strong leader and expect compliance. Women don’t stay with men who don’t know who they are or don’t know what they want. That’s called a LOSER! Nobody wants any additional uncertainty or indecisiveness in their lives.

She’s looking for a man who is sure of his identity and masculine strength. Women are often desperate for a man to lead her down a path of better ways and brighter days. When she meets a man with a great plan, she’s often more than happy to follow his lead.

#3 Challenge Her In Conversation To Get Her To Qualify.

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Now by challenging her, I mean using phrases that force her to qualify and prove herself to you. like, “Are you flirting with me?” Or “I only talk to blonde girls so you better be pretty awesome to make up for it.” Things like this will challenge her and force her to qualify herself to you in conversation. This is a pillar of teasing and flirting with women, and the easiest way to do it is to use one of these qualifying statements. Another great way to accomplish qualification is to elicit congruence tests from the girl sometimes called shit tests.

I really enjoy making fun of political correctness or challenging mainstream belief systems with women. Basically mocking whatever she would have seen in the news about how we are supposed to behave. This is another way of demonstrating leadership and irreverent humor. When a woman challenges you on the points you’re making fun of, and you stay firm in your position, she knows you’re not the type of guy she can push around. This is the quickest way ever to create massive attraction and build compliance with hot women.

#4 Use The Push-Pull Method.

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Push-pull is a tried-and-true classic technique, basically, you compliment a girl and then pull it back by adding an insult or taking the compliment away. An example of this is to jokingly say something like: “You’re cute, we’d make a hot couple, too bad you’re not my type.” This creates a flirty back and forth dynamic between you and the girl and allows for that sexual tension to build up nicely. I use this method in almost everything I say to a girl because it’s the most effective tool at building a sexual vibe that makes the girl wanna chase you.

Some guys really try to overcomplicate that concept. Although it’s extremely potent, it’s also just flirting 101. When you’re a man who knows who he is, knows what he wants, and isn’t willing to veer off his path to pander to a stranger, this is such a breath of fresh air to a woman. A rare opportunity for her to meet a confident man, someone who might want her, but certainly doesn’t need her, she won’t want to miss out on the adventures she could have with you! -She knows another beautiful woman would be excited and delighted to take her place. And that’s it!