Gentlemen, today we’re showing you the 10 ways to get ANY girl to fall in love with you FAST. If you really like a girl and want to make her yours then follow these simple steps which today we are gonna tell you. Hey, guys, this is Jessie and you are on mensecretbooks.com. We reveal every secret that men need. so, let’s get started.
10. Get Busy.
Look, Guys, Before you even think of getting girls to fall in love with you. You have to love yourself first And one of the most effective ways of doing that. Is by becoming the man you’ve always wanted to be. And how do you do that? By keeping busy! Knock things off your list. Get in shape. Run errands. Get fat stacks. Pick up a couple of skills and always be getting better. In other words, if you want a girl to look at you like a guy with long-term potential It’s got to be clear to her that you know how to get stuff done and have your priorities straight.
9. Know Thyself.
While there are plenty of aimless, surface-level guys out there that get girls to like them, Most girls aren’t going to fall in love with a guy who has no direction and doesn’t know who he is. You know why? Because that’s not a man… That there is a child. Girls want a man who’s confident, sure of himself, and won’t overwhelm her with his insecurities. And to really be that man, you’ve got to go deep, venture where other guys won’t, and do what most are afraid to do. Constantly question your own thoughts and actions. Seek to understand why you are the way you are. It can be a hard path sometimes, it might even get a little dark But by taking the time to learn who you really are, you’ll become more confident… And slowly become the real dude girls want to end up with.
8. Be Gentleman.
There’s a long-standing myth that girls only date jerks. But it’s simply not true. Women may flirt with jerks, they may laugh at their jokes, but in general, they don’t plan on being attracted to jerks. As time goes on, most women in the jerk phase of their dating life eventually realize the obvious, jerks are actually jerks. They think to themselves, why was I with that guy for so long? Was I really into that? Then they realize part of them does actually have a thing for jerks, but not the mean kind of a jerk, no… They now see that the guy they want is… “the gentle jerk.” The gentle jerk is the kind of guy most women can love. Sweet, caring, helpful, but unapologetic and bold. He’s like an easy going teammate… Who will also stand by his girl’s side but also help her stiff-arm life? Because life is like playing football. You dodge a bunch of hazards while trying to reach your goal And sometimes you get knocked down. So it’s nice to have a teammate to pick you back up. And being that helpful, reliable advocate.
7. Speak Your Mind.
How many times has this happened to you: You and a girl are discussing which land mammal is the coolest when she has the audacity to say, “African Elephants.” You know for a fact that Capuchin Monkeys are cooler, but do you tell her that? NO! For some reason, you go entirely against your beliefs and agree with her even though you CLEARLY prefer Capuchin Monkeys to Elephants. Look, guys… confrontation is hard, but it’s a part of life. If you find yourself avoiding it, That’s something you need to work on. Because not only are you probably missing out on some fun discussion and debate, You’re also signaling to a girl that you may be insecure and a pushover. Two things… That girls do not want out of a guy who’s captured their heart.
6. Get Invited To Parties.
If there’s one thing every girl wants to have when she’s with a guy, especially from a guy she’s going to love… it’s a good time. So what’s the number one thing you can do to make sure a girl is having fun when you’re together? Be fun to be around. Girls love a guy who makes them laugh. And it’s not just because every moment she spends with him is a surprise… Laughter releases the feel-good chemical, dopamine into our brains, so you’re literally brain-hacking her love code when you make a girl laugh. So tell jokes, good or bad, hone your comedic timing, and go from being a fun-gi at parties to being a
5. Take a Break.
Results may vary, but in 9/10 successful long-term relationships, It’s important to back off from time to time. We’ve all been there… It’s impossible not to be excited about someone new you’re talking to. And what can end up happening, Is that you text too much or rush things… And you fail to nurture the relationship in the right ways during the early stages. Rookie move. Make her fall in love with you. Be unavailable and stay busy. Find time for her, but don’t always make time for her. By keeping a reasonable distance, you’ll be able to keep your emotions in check… and ride the slow, cool wave to long-term love.
4. Don’t Be a Suck.
Have you ever been around someone who is constantly a Debbie Downer? Someone who always has something negative to say, no matter the situation? People like that suck the fun out of everything. They’re fun sponges, and girls freakin’ HATE fun sponges.
3. Get In Good.
It’s no secret: Girls are love talking to friends and family about, well… Everything. And that includes everything about you. So you end up in a situation like this: You’ve been seeing a girl for a while and she definitely, definitely likes you… But she’s not sure if she loves you. And one of the things that are hinging on is how you do with her friends and family. And while getting to know her family can be intimidating, It’s also a great opportunity to get in good with those closest to your girl and seal the deal on love.
2. Resist the Urge.
We live in an age where everyone is constantly bombarded with distractions. Buy this! Eat here! Look at this funny cat picture! Because of these incessant distractions, it can be hard to stay focused when you’re talking with a girl. But that’s no excuse. Even though it’s no fault of your own, a girl can’t fall in love with a guy who’s just not really there. So if you’re not listening to her. She’s going to notice… So if you want a girl to fall in love with you have to be attentive and actually acknowledge and hear what she’s saying.
1. Prepare For Takeoff.
It doesn’t matter which phase of a relationship you’re in… Physical contact is THE #1 way to get any girl to fall in love with you fast. So when you’re on a date, initiate a light touch at first. If she’s into you, it’ll give her butterflies. (It’s a great way to flirt) Because on top of an emotional connection, girls NEED a physical connection with their partner. So start slow and escalate things gradually until she gives you the all-clear. And by the time the countdown starts… She’ll be ready to blast off just as much as you.