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Philosophy of life

“Philosophy of life” is an overall vision of or attitude toward life and the purpose of life.

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A man with one watch knows what time it is, A man with two watches is never quite sure.

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Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped.

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Look at life through the windshield, not the rear-view mirror.

Byrd Bagget
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nothing can bring you peace but yourself.

Ralph Waldo Emerson 
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People may doubt what you say, but they will believe what you do.

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Be nice to people on your way up because you’ll meet them on your way down.

Wilson Mizner
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Time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time.

John Lennon
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Never explain . Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it.

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While seeking revenge, dig two graves – one for yourself.

Douglas Horton
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Courage is not a lack of fear, but the ability to act while facing fear.

Franklin D. Roosevelt 
You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your father was.
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You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your father was.

Irish Proverb
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The best way to predict the future is to create it. 

Abraham Lincoln and Peter Drucker
It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.
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It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.

Andre Gide
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Don’t worry about the people in your past there’s a reason they didn’t make it to your future.

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Happiness has one advantage over wealth, no one can borrow it.

G Vinod
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Everythings happens for a reason.

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Forgiveness is not something we do for other people. It’s something we do for ourselves to move on.

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What different in you makes you beautiful.

Anastasia Dangerfield
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6 Rules To Become High Status

There’s a status ranking system that all humans unconsciously run through their minds anytime they encounter somebody new. We try to figure out where we personally fit on the social ladder compared to other people around us in any given situation. But you don’t need to be on stage or be rich, or famous, to convey high status. You can convey many of the high-status signals through your behavior and body language. You see, money and fame are just situational status. If you want to be high status in virtually every situation, then it has to be sub-communicated in the following ways.

#1: Have A Calm Masculine Presence

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First, you need to understand that a woman will get a sense of your status immediately just by the way that you carry yourself. If you seem nervous, flustered, fidgety, or you can’t hold the tension with an attractive woman, she will instantly sense your fear and insecurity and deem you lower status than her. If you seem scared of her, then essentially you’re putting her on a pedestal above you. So how do you solve this?

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You must develop a calm, masculine presence. Where you’re secure and who you are. So that you can walk up to a woman, look her deep in her eyes, and remain calm under the tension of that situation. It doesn’t even faze you. This is literally the number one quality in attracting a woman and being high status. Now, women will often test you in this quality. She might poke you, and press some of your hot buttons to see if you can handle that situation and stay calm and keep your cool. Because if she can easily affect your emotions, then you can’t possibly be the strong Rock of a man that she wants.

#2: Physiology Affects Your Psychology

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So one thing that will help eliminate those nervous feelings in your body is to walk, talk, and stand high-status. Most guys, when they walk into a new venue, they walk in nervous. And they start looking around everywhere as if they’re lost. And they start circling the place like a shark. Or they just stand in the corner somewhere, watching everyone else have fun. When you walk into that venue, especially like a bar or Club, walk in like you own the place. If there are two doors, I like to push him open like I’m the man and do the victory pose. It sounds pretty lame on camera, but it actually looks pretty cool when you do it. Have a slight grin on your face, like you’re right at home.

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I even recommend as soon as you enter start saying hi to people or high-five them. And if you’re dressed really well, and having a good time enjoying yourself, then people will actually probably mistake you for the owner. When you stand, no slouch. This will instantly lower your status. I know it’s a bad habit for most people, but start becoming aware of it so you can break that habit right now.

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To know exactly how you should always be standing, go find a wall and stand against it. Your ass, shoulder blades, and head should all be touching the wall. This is how you should always be standing. Move your body slow and with purpose. Ingrain this into your brain because it’s that important. Now, this doesn’t mean you have to be stoic and motionless. It’s OK to have fun and dance and jump up and down. Just eliminate nervous gestures like scratching yourself, rubbing your fingers, playing with your jewelry, and constantly shifting your eyes.

#3: Strong eye contact is a sign of power.

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Now you can take this even further if you want by blinking less. That can really convey power and intensity. Now don’t overdo it with a creepy stare down. Just make sure you have strong, steady eye contact. And I recommend just focusing on one eye because if you shift from eye to eye, that will make you seem nervous. Next, make sure to lead your group. If you’re not currently the leader of your social circle, then start taking the lead. And remember, good leaders tend to make decisions quickly, and they change their mind slowly.

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Whereas followers or non-leaders tend to make decisions slowly, and they change their mind very easily and quickly. So take charge. When you’re out with your friends, be the first to move. For example, if you’re at dinner with your group of friends, be the first to say: “Come on, let’s get out of here!” When you do this, you’re unconsciously framing in their mind that you are the leader. That when you say go, everybody goes. And remember this, a good leader is always a leader of self first.

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Whereas followers or non-leaders tend to make decisions slowly, and they change their mind very easily and quickly. So take charge. When you’re out with your friends, be the first to move. For example, if you’re at dinner with your group of friends, be the first to say: “Come on, let’s get out of here!” When you do this, you’re unconsciously framing in their mind that you are the leader. That when you say go, everybody goes. And remember this, a good leader is always a leader of self first.

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Another way to lead is to bring people into your world, and this works really well for example: let’s say you have a favorite bar or club or restaurant that you always go to, and everybody there knows you because you’re a cool social guy, you chat up the owner, the waitresses. You know the bouncers, etc. Well, when you bring people into that world, and they see you treated like a king, they will see you like a king.

#4: Become the leader of Leaders

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When you’re out socializing, befriend other men that are leaders of their group. This will cause the women in that group to see you as a leader too, and thus be more attracted to you. If you go out and you see a large mixed group of guys and girls, determine who the leader is and befriend him. You can usually tell who the leader is because a lot of times all the other people are circled around him, and they all stop to listen when he speaks. And keep in mind that status is not about out alpha-ing other guys. If other guys don’t respect you, then you’ve actually lost your status.

#5: Give Value

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High-status men tend to give value. They don’t take the value, they have so much greatness in their life that they want to share it with everyone. They don’t try to make people feel bad about themselves or put people down. They make people feel good, inspired, proud, and beautiful. Give and you shall receive. You may have heard of the concept of “negging” which is basically giving a negative compliment to a woman. Such as: “So is this your natural hair color? So you changed it to that?!” and it’s designed to knock her down a few pegs. Essentially, bring her down to the guy’s lower status. Which if you think about, it is a really bad mindset. Right, it’s the mindset that she’s above me, and I gotta say this thing – basically insult her.

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One surprising way to bring someone up to your level is by challenging them. So instead of using manipulation to lower people, an easy way to lift people up is to give them a genuine compliment. Now instead of a generic compliment like, “Nice dress!” say, “You know this dress really suits you like it makes you look really elegant.” do you see how that’s a lot better? Now, this doesn’t mean that you should suck up to people. Does a king suck up to people? Definitely not. He might compliment someone, but he’s not trying to seek their approval.

#6: Command Attention

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A man that can stop everyone and command them to listen to him, demonstrates status. And make sure your toast is outstanding. After all, you have center stage. Whether you’re making a toast, or just commanding the attention of a room, or people nearby, speak with conviction. If you hesitate or stumble when you speak, most people probably won’t see you as a worthy leader.

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A high-status man is decisive, and he speaks as if he’s sure of himself. Your voice should be loud, slow, controlled, and projected so all can hear. A good rule of thumb when you’re speaking to someone or a group of people, a woman, or whatever, is to speak so even the people behind them can hear. Even if there’s no one behind them, imagine there are people behind them and speak loud enough so they can hear. Because if you’re only speaking loud enough for the people in your close vicinity to hear you, then you’re gonna be speaking very low, and it’s gonna sound insecure bottom line. So project your voice so all can hear, and don’t worry if other people around you can hear you. Who cares? This is your reality anyway.

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Another way to command attention is by dressing really well. Studies have actually shown that people who wear a suit are perceived as authority figures, versus people wearing just normal clothes. Because if you look like a powerful leader, not only will you feel like one but people will actually see you as one. Last, and definitely one of the most important, is that high-status people tend to have very high standards for themselves, and also the people they allow in their life. Be picky about the people that you let in. Including the girls that you date. A king is not gonna just make anybody his queen. He’s gonna choose the absolute best. That’s why it’s so important to qualify women. And when you do this, they will see you as high status. You can even qualify men as well before you bring them into your inner circle. Because high-status men have high standards for everybody that they bring in their life. And they also challenge people to bring the best out of them.

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So for example, if I give a seminar and somebody comes up to me afterward, and they say “Hey I really liked your talk!” Instead of just saying thank you, I might say “Hey thanks a lot, which part did you like the best?” or “Thanks man, what did you like about it?” Now I’m showing appreciation, but I’m also being a little challenging and making him think a little. So start doing this with everyone in your life and you’ll actually begin to notice that they’re treating you higher status. When you apply all of these things, not only will you have more attractive women in your life, but other aspects of your life. Such as your wealth, your career, other relationships, and even your health will all improve.

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7 Tips To Help You Live Your Best Life In 2019

What’s up everybody, welcome to the men-secret-books. one thing successful people all have in common is that they’re always striving for better if you’re good well you’re not good enough and if you’re great, you’re not the best and if you’re the best well someone’s still trying to take your spot from you. Being comfortable with where you are is one of the biggest killers of success, no matter what your definition of success is. we have a short amount of time on this earth, so I want to squeeze as much value that I can’t out of life, so in this post let’s go over 7 things you can do this year to live a better life.

#1 Be a little bit kinder

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I had to go to the post office because I needed to sign a couple of documents. the post office isn’t really a fun place to be because there are always such long lines and people are always irritated because why did you lose my baggage. it was finally my turn and the lady sitting behind the desk saw me and screams next you just knew that she was stressed out, so I tried to start a conversation with her. wow they really got you working overtime huh that one sentence completely changed her mood like literally you saw the stress melt off her face and then she began venting about some annoying customers who think they know everything and about how busy she is at work then she told me that I needed two forms of identification to sign these documents, But the problem was I only had one. if you’ve ever been in a situation like this before you know that if the person sitting behind the desk is in a bad mood, they can make your life miserable I told her I only have one form of identification on me and she whispers “I am gonna protect you but didn’t say that” say that and should let me sign the documents without the hassle of me having to come back and stand in line again, a little bit of kindness can go a long way in a lot of different ways.

#2 Take care of your body

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Life is busy, you got to go to school, you got to go to work, you got to take care of the kids, you got to start a business, you got to start investing, But you cannot forget to take care of your body. the best health insurance is preventive care by eating clean and by working out often because we’re not getting any younger.

#3 Do something you’ve always wanted to do!

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For years I wanted to do MMA which is mixed martial arts told myself I would do it and then I asked a few of my friends to do it with me and a couple of them said they were interested but nobody did anything. I wasted so much time waiting for other people to do MMA with me, so I said screw it I’m gonna do it myself, I picked up my phone and I called a few MMA gyms and then I went and then I became a regular member for a little while. the hardest part about starting something new is “starting”, so stop waiting for George to start and stop waiting for the perfect time because the perfect time will never happen, just go out and make it happen.

#4 Spend less time the technology

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I have an internet business clearly minority, mindset is an internet-based-educational brand, so I love the power that technology has given us, But here’s a little bit of advice “the world doesn’t need to know what you’re doing” just show them what you did, so give yourself an occasional break if you need one remember what it’s like not to be bombarded by notifications every four seconds.

#5 Make less excuses

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The only thing holding you back from achieving your dreams is you, so let’s make this the year of making things happen, But what if nope you either get it done or you don’t. wait… No, you don’t understand I had no more excuses show me the results.

#6 Be a Giver

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I had a new fridge delivered to my house recently. my delivery guys set it up it probably took him 15 minutes and the salesperson that I bought the fridge from told me that tipping is not required but he was super friendly, so I gave him a $30 tip. he spent the next couple minutes thanking me for the tip and telling me how I would use the $30 and then he told me that it made his day, But honestly I think it made my day even more because I just felt good hearing this.

#7 Watch less TV

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Going along with some of the things that I said in this post you only live once, so stop wasting your time in front of the stupid box. sorry… I’m a TV box. I know you really wanna know who won in America’s Got Talent, so work your way down to gradually watch less TV, if you watch three hours of TV a day, bring it down to two hours a day then eventually one hour a day, now you can use your extra time to do more and learn more because well now you have more time to do these things.

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7 Ways to INSTANTLY Make People Like YOU!

Charisma is one of the key attributes that can open a lot of new doors for you in both your personal and professional life if people find you charismatic everything becomes easier you’ll be invited to a lot more parties get more success with girls have an easier time a job interview school and in your professional life.

#1 Empower People Around You

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This is probably the most powerful method for appearing charismatic let me reiterate charismatic people are like magnets everyone loves being around them a shortcut to being magnetic like this is to empower the people around you. In today’s world, everyone is just jealous envious and tries to bring people who are doing better down going against this norm will instantly make you stand out.

you’ll realize that if somebody starts sharing your goals or plans with you they will probably sound a bit insecure about it because nowadays everyone gets ridiculed and made fun of for trying to achieve something that’s out of the norm so when you reply with words of encouragement support advice and belief in that person. you will instantly win them over because they’re probably used to the exact opposite and this external validation is something. Most people require an easy phrase you can use to make those around you feel empowered it is the phrase of I have a lot of respect for that or I have a lot of respect for what you’re doing now if you are hearing that from somebody wouldn’t you feel good about what you’re doing damn right you would.

#2 Touch

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Now by touch, I don’t mean going around fondling everyone’s insight you definitely don’t want to be doing that but touch is a hallmark of the charismatic person so you should definitely be warmer and incorporate touch into your interactions with people. This is the easiest thing you can integrate to your everyday interactions instantly and it makes a world of difference. simple things like following a handshake with an enthusiastic bro hug tapping somebody on the shoulder when they say something funny and so on in fact following a handshake with a bro hug is something I do every time I greet someone I know this because it makes them instantly happier to see you and it draws them to your presence so next time you DAP up your friend hug him and you’ll notice the difference immediately.

#3 Confidence

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Using confident language and showing conviction in your affirmations are what show you are truly behind what they’re saying and believe in it. This conviction in your language is what makes you magnetic and will make people want to follow you. In order to speak with this level of conviction now, you’ll need to be totally confident in yourself and be void of self-doubt. You don’t have to walk around the city with a fake grin all the time but smiling when people talk to you will make people perceive you as friendly positive confident and of course charismatic. You will also appear less aggressive and less threatening so people will feel comfortable in your presence this helps especially if you’re talking to a shy and insecure person.

#4 Be The Source Of Positivity

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Positivity shouldn’t be only on your face but also in your behaviors and actions positivity is contagious and nobody has enough of it so when you become the source of it. People want to be in your presence a lot more it’s easy for people to pick up on who has a positive mindset and when people who are dwelling on negative thing 24/7 suddenly talk to someone who brings them out of that face for a moment when this happens they’ll literally want to follow that person all the time.

#5 Quit Complaining

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once you start complaining about things you are destroying all the positivity you just created by reminding everyone about all the negativity. it’s okay to acknowledge negative things but that’s the difference from complaining about them complaining is just crying about how bad things are and not doing shit about it you can acknowledge a negative thing with a positive mindset just by calling it out and instead of dwelling on it and describing how shitty the situation is. Instead, talk about how to overcome this negative thing how to get the best out of it or just how to get through.

#6 Improve Your Appearance

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This might sound too shallow but it’s true. There’s this effect in psychology called “the halo effect” and the theory pretty much says that if you’re physically attractive people will also associate you with positive psychological attributes such as confidence intelligence and essentially all those attributes that make people be perceived as charismatic. that’s why working out having a solid hygiene routine taking care of your skin like I mentioned before and wearing stylish clothes will also help you out with appearing charismatic because people will just assume you’re a better person than if you opted to not do those things.

#7 Joke Around With People

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Being charismatic is great but being charismatic and also funny multiplies your perceived charisma by a longshot this is why people who are funny are also typically charismatic. Charismatic people make people feel good and positive now this can be achieved through other ways other than being funny however if you still make people feel good positive and also make them laugh it’s over my friend being able to achieve this level of charismatic Nirvana means turning yourself into an absolute social Savage and king of all social interactions and who doesn’t want to be that cool dude that’s the life of the party that my friends are it.

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Use These 3 Words To Summon INSTANT Confidence

Right now 90% of people on this planet are not living to their full potential and it’s not because they lack resources or opportunity. the reason why most people are unleashing their full potential is simply that they lack confidence.

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Confidence is quite literally like a superpower or in other words it’s a level of power that is greater in scope or magnitude than what is considered natural, confidence is like the magic ingredient that allows you to get things out of life that you never thought were possible such as time with that beautiful girl that you’ve always liked, to put it simply confidence is what you need to unleash your true potential to become something like a real-life superhero.

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Some people think that you must be one of the lucky guys who was born with confidence, not realizing that confidence is actually something that has learned over time something that most people don’t realize is that like any other mindset confidence can also be lost if it is not used regularly but confidence is also like a muscle meaning that once you build it initially it is a hundred times easier to rebuild it if it is ever lost but most men sadly have never built it, to begin with where if they did they simply didn’t build enough of it what you’re about to learn will allow you to summon pure confidence at will so that you can conquer life unleash your potential and reach the pinnacle of what you are capable of but here’s the crazy thing that nobody ever told you about confidence, the weird thing about this real-life superpower is that confidence isn’t your actual ability to succeed but rather your belief in your ability to succeed, what you believe about yourself whether it’s true or not is the thing that shapes your life and the decisions that you make every single day.

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What you’re about to learn is the most effective most powerful way to summon the confidence that you need to conquer anything in life whether it’s getting more results with attractive girls or generating millions of dollars so let us begin this trick is called the act as if meaning you must act as if you already have the level of confidence that you desire, if you were to ask one of the most confident men in the world what the secret was to his incredible confidence you probably wouldn’t believe him because he would tell you that to gain this superhuman power all that he really did was start acting as he believed in himself. we’ve all heard of the placebo effect which is a very real thing that is backed up by real science for example if I tell you that you can make a girl instantly attracted to you just by looking at her certainly even if this is not possible as long as you believe that it’s possible there is a very good chance that you will go out and actually attract girls just by doing exactly what I told you to do, this is a simple example of the placebo effect in action all humans on the planet are primarily driven by their beliefs, therefore, your belief is like a hidden superpower that you already have within you and you don’t need a million dollars or a hot girl to approve of you to unleash.

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In psychology, there is also something called a self-fulfilling prophecy which states all the way back to ancient Greece and this prophecy states that your prediction about the outcome of a situation actually influences and alters your behaviour in ways that make that prediction come true, it was Confucius who said it best when he uttered the phrase


the man who says he can, and the man who says he cannot… are both usually right.

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Scientists can’t explain why the placebo effect works but they have confirmed its existence all too often we look to the external world for confidence we look at things like how many likes we got on our latest Facebook post or what kind of car we drive not realizing that the start of peer unshakable confidence comes from within it literally starts with our own belief that we can do it before anything else, at its core building peer confidence is all about taking small calculated risks and even the simple trick of acting as if you already have confidence is in itself taking one of these risks when it comes to pretty much all things in life if there is no risk then there is no reward, now the second extremely important part of gaining the confidence that you’ve always wanted involves little things called reference points.

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Think about this when you’re about to approach a girl what is it that really makes you confident in other words where does the peer confidence come from, the answer is actually really simple, the confidence to approach an attractive girl or to do pretty much anything that you’re scared of involves you thinking back to the reference points or memories of when you’ve done that thing successfully before, these reference points are like small wins or times where things went good for you and the more small wins that you accumulate over time the more confident you will be when doing whatever it is that you want to do and the key to accumulating these small wins all goes back to your belief about yourself which is why acting as if is such a powerful but simple way to instantly boost your confidence in any situation so the next time that you want to unleash superhuman confidence, simply act as if and believe in yourself then you can accumulate the small wins or reference points needed to build the confidence that will withstand the test of time.