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6 Things Guys Do That Turn Girls ON!

Girls are different from guys and instead of working girls physically, you should work them mentally. Girls don’t really require you to put on a show in order to turn them on, but they expect you to be able to put them into the right place psychologically. One thing to remember is that every girl is different and you can’t really follow a formula. BUT, since what I will do is teach you the basic principles you need to know so that you can apply them situationally.

#1 Dominant body language and behavior

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Girls LOVE bad boys. One of the things that turn women on is knowing that the guy she’s dealing with is really a MAN. And I mean REALLY a man. So many guys are so shy and scared when it comes to talking to and being with women, so when you’re the exact opposite, it’ll be an instant turn on her for. If you appear dominant and constantly show dominant behavior, your lady will be begging for you. Showing dominant behavior means being a leader, taking the charge and just letting her follow. You should be the one who initiates everything and doesn’t ask for permissions but just goes for what he wants. Women want you to have this mentality in everything you do because it makes them feel safe, secure, and desired. If you’re still unsure of how to do this, then just imagine what a dominant man would do in the situation you’re in, and just do that.

#2 Focus on the overall experience

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This tip is too important so, take notes. All of your actions with women should be framed with this principle in mind. Girls are a lot more impressed and satisfied with the overall experience they have when they spend time with you than how you do individual things. Think of it like this, if I had Gordon Ramsay serve you the most amazing Quinoa salad, but it was served to you on a styrofoam plate and a plastic fork, in a fast-food restaurant, how would you feel about the dish? Now think about that same exact Quinoa salad, except it was served to you by a waiter wearing white gloves on a silver platter, in a restaurant with white tablecloths and a live band. Which restaurant experience are you gonna prefer? The second one, exactly.

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Girls are the same way, you have to package and serve yourself and all your actions to them in a way that’s smooth, seductive, and all-around awesome. This is why it’s not enough to just be good looking, you have to have a good game, playfully flirt with her, touch her, and make her into you, in every way possible. The ability to do this is what separates guys with a good game from guys with a GREAT game.

#3: Making her feel desired

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One thing that never fails is when you really make a girl feel desired. Girls really want to feel desired, especially romantically, because it makes them feel better about their insecurities and when you give them that reassurement, it boosts their confidence and makes them feel a lot more comfortable with you. When you give her that comfort, she will be on a higher energy level, which usually means that she will also be a lot more into whatever you’re doing, which is going to make everything better for you.

 #4: Be observant and figure out the specific thing that works on her.

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Different girls like different things. Your main girl might LOVE one thing, and your side girl might LOVE something totally different. So it’s your job to experiment and see what actions and behaviors girls like and catering to those preferences. And a shortcut to figuring this out is to just simply ask her. She’ll appreciate you taking initiative and treating her the way she tells you she likes to be treated.

#5: Showing your emotional side

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Girls are used to guys talking to them with this constant “I’m an untouchable tough guy” mask on and that’s why girls don’t really get to see guys talk about their feelings or showing vulnerability. When a girl is actually interested in you as a person and it isn’t only some casual, she will really want you to show all of those things and when you do it, chances are it will turn her on because it makes girls feel really special when guys open up about this type of shit. It makes the girl feel like you actually trust her and see her for more than just her looks because otherwise, you wouldn’t be having conversations like that in the first place.

 #6: Thoughtfulness

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One thing that turns girls on the most is if you are thoughtful and remember little things. Let’s say that you were talking about food and she told you about her favorite restaurant in your area. If you invite her over and surprise her with food from that restaurant before she comes, it will be an instant turn on for her, because it shows that you actually listen to the things that she tells you and that you actually care enough to think about her in a way that’s more than just sexual. This is just an over-simplified example, but you get the idea. And that’s it.

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How to Turn A Girl ON Through Conversation

Yo Boys! Biggest questions for the one-sided lover that how to make a girl yours through conversation. In similar word how to turn a girl switch on to start a conversation with you so, here your answer is.

#1 Man The Fuck Up!

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Yeah, you heard me Right! When you approach the girl you like or you’re talking to the girl you like, don’t approach her from the side and do that awkward side talk thing. Remove that! Don’t tiptoe and circle the girl like a vulture when you first go to talk to her. That’s a huge no-no! Show her you’re a man, approach her from the front, square your shoulders up with hers, and make eye contact with her when you introduce yourself.

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A lot of guys are too nervous to just go up and approach a girl like a normal person that they do all these weird things like the approach from the side or from behind and it actually makes you look like a huge creep. Guys do this to be non-threatening and to not weird the girl out but it actually ends up backfiring and making you look like a huge weirdo! These are all defense mechanisms that guys use to avoid doing what they know they should, which is simply going up to the girl like a normal human being and introducing yourself and saying “hey I’m here.” Be assertive, be confident, and be a man! 

#2 Certainty

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This is similar to point #1 about being a man. If you’re out in a nightlife environment, you gotta understand that it is chaotic. There’s music, there’s alcohol, there are tons of people crowded all over the place, there are bouncers yelling at people, and the girl’s friends are all over the place. It’s just chaos and anarchy and there’s a lack of structure and certainty. So when you decide to man up and you show up to the girl and you have certainty in your actions and you lead her and the interaction properly, she’ll be more likely down to hang out with you because she sees you as the person who’s gonna make the decisions and provide certainty in this chaotic environment.

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You should have certainty in your body language, in how you speak, and in your game plan for the night. So if you want to move from the dance floor to the bar with the girl, you should simply say something like “hey let’s head to the bar for a second” and lead her in that direction. If you say it in a nerdy unconfident voice like “hey uh do you wanna maybe uh go to the uh bar” then there’s is no way she’s gonna follow you. She probably won’t even hear you over the blaring loud music! This is why having certainty is so important, it’s a psychological thing that’s really important in the chaos of a bar or a club because it makes the girl feel safe and secure with you. Also, a lack of certainty shows a weak and flimsy personality that girls won’t be impressed by and will see right through. For this reason, certainty in how you speak, carry yourself, and communicate to her is KEY.

#3 Fragrance

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The fragrance you wear and how you smell is absolutely ESSENTIAL to making a girl sexually attracted to you. Whether it’s a daytime environment or a nightlife environment, wearing a strong, seductive fragrance will instantly boost your sexual appeal by a few points in the girl’s mind. Smelling like a boss is KEY, especially if you’re the type of guy who likes to go out and meet girls at parties, bars, and clubs. In nightlife environments like this, having a strong and sexy fragrance will easily separate you from 90% of the guys who smell like sweat and booze, so this way you’ll be MILES ahead of them.

 #4 Vocal Tonality

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A huge part of communication with girls is the sub-communication that’s happening throughout the entire interaction. This is why I always stress the importance of body language and presence when talking to girls. A huge part of this sub-communication is your vocal tonality. Vocal tonality is just the way you speak to someone, BUT, your vocal tonality plays a HUGE role in making a girl attracted to you. The first part about vocal tonality is projection, aka how well your voice projects. When you speak, you should speak from your diaphragm which is located in your stomach, this allows your voice to project better and come off as louder and clearer.

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Projecting your voice like this makes your voice sound way more confident and way more charismatic as opposed to speaking in a normal low tone. The second part about vocal tonality is your tone, now I know, I know, not everybody can have a good voice but speaking in a slightly lower tone signal to the girl that you’re confident and you’re not seeking approval. While speaking in a higher pitch tone is indicative of seeking approval and validation.

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A good rule of thumb is to avoid ending sentences in a higher pitch tone because it indicates that you’re trying to get the other person’s approval or validation. Rather, when you end sentences in a lower pitch tone it indicates that you’re speaking freely and without the filter, aka you’re not trying to get the other person’s approval. Think about how a boss talks to an employee, they typically speak in a lower pitch tone, while an employee speaks in a higher pitch tone to their boss. This sub communication indicates a person’s status so for this reason, it’s better to avoid using a higher pitch tone when speaking to people.

#5 Signal abundance to the girl through humor

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Basically, abundance is when you show the girl that you have an abundance of girls, dope shit, and other people in your life. But showing abundance through humor is a REALLY easy way to get a girl turned on. Not being afraid to say what you want and make jokes that are funny to you shows the girl that you’re not needy because it makes it clear to her that you’re not seeking her approval or trying to change yourself for her. It sounds counterproductive but when you don’t need her approval and don’t care if she likes you, it actually makes her like you more. When you’re comfortable enough with yourself and who you are that you talk about whatever entertains YOU and whatever YOU find funny, girls will flock. When you’re not overly desperate or needy then it makes her like you that much more. And that’s it.

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How to Make Girls CHASE YOU!

Yo-yo, guys today I’m gonna be showing you guys how to make a girl chase you. Let’s jump right into it. First and foremost.

#1 Thing You Want To Signal To The Girl Is Abundance.

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Abundance basically means ‘plentiful’, and you want to signal to the girl that you have a plentiful of hot girls to choose from, and overall a life that’s awesome and worthy of having. This abundance of good shit in your life will show the girl that she’s not the only thing in your life and that you’re not gonna become some needy overzealous who’s constantly gonna seek her approval. Once you signal abundance, the girl will be vying for your attention, as opposed to you competing for hers.

I noticed years ago, that men always end up with exactly the quality of women, that they’re willing to walk away from. The price you pay when you need the attention of a particular woman is: well, you can never have her. One of the most pragmatic things a man can do to indicate abundance to a woman and thus a lack of neediness is to simply engage in irreverent humor. When you feel comfortable enough and entitled enough to speak freely about the things you think are funny with no fear of rejection, girls often get very attracted to you. Sure, some won’t like your sense of humor, but the ones who do, will for sure chase you. When she knows you’re one of those rare guys who isn’t needy or desperate to impress her, then she has to have you!

#2 Assume Attraction.

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This is exactly what it sounds like. Basically, you want to assume and treat the girl like she’s already into you. Assuming attraction is a really good way to interact with girls overall because it prevents you from acting in approval-seeking ways and increases your confidence level subconsciously. Not only that, the way you will begin to act when you assume she’s already into you will make her perceive you as more confident, assertive, and dominant in the relationship… All qualities that will draw her to you and make her want you even more. It’s extremely important to be a strong leader and expect compliance. Women don’t stay with men who don’t know who they are or don’t know what they want. That’s called a LOSER! Nobody wants any additional uncertainty or indecisiveness in their lives.

She’s looking for a man who is sure of his identity and masculine strength. Women are often desperate for a man to lead her down a path of better ways and brighter days. When she meets a man with a great plan, she’s often more than happy to follow his lead.

#3 Challenge Her In Conversation To Get Her To Qualify.

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Now by challenging her, I mean using phrases that force her to qualify and prove herself to you. like, “Are you flirting with me?” Or “I only talk to blonde girls so you better be pretty awesome to make up for it.” Things like this will challenge her and force her to qualify herself to you in conversation. This is a pillar of teasing and flirting with women, and the easiest way to do it is to use one of these qualifying statements. Another great way to accomplish qualification is to elicit congruence tests from the girl sometimes called shit tests.

I really enjoy making fun of political correctness or challenging mainstream belief systems with women. Basically mocking whatever she would have seen in the news about how we are supposed to behave. This is another way of demonstrating leadership and irreverent humor. When a woman challenges you on the points you’re making fun of, and you stay firm in your position, she knows you’re not the type of guy she can push around. This is the quickest way ever to create massive attraction and build compliance with hot women.

#4 Use The Push-Pull Method.

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Push-pull is a tried-and-true classic technique, basically, you compliment a girl and then pull it back by adding an insult or taking the compliment away. An example of this is to jokingly say something like: “You’re cute, we’d make a hot couple, too bad you’re not my type.” This creates a flirty back and forth dynamic between you and the girl and allows for that sexual tension to build up nicely. I use this method in almost everything I say to a girl because it’s the most effective tool at building a sexual vibe that makes the girl wanna chase you.

Some guys really try to overcomplicate that concept. Although it’s extremely potent, it’s also just flirting 101. When you’re a man who knows who he is, knows what he wants, and isn’t willing to veer off his path to pander to a stranger, this is such a breath of fresh air to a woman. A rare opportunity for her to meet a confident man, someone who might want her, but certainly doesn’t need her, she won’t want to miss out on the adventures she could have with you! -She knows another beautiful woman would be excited and delighted to take her place. And that’s it!

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How To Make Any Girl Fall In Love with You

Alright, I see you’re struggling to get girls so you’re looking to me to teach you EXACTLY how to make that hot girl you like fall in love with you… well you came to the right place. I mean, this IS god’s house after all.

Tip #1: Believe your own hype.

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If you want to make a girl fall in love with you and be totally obsessed, then you’re gonna need to be a pretty fucking bad-ass dude. And in order to achieve that level of badassery then you’re gonna need to believe the own hype train. You need to REALLY believe that you are that bad-ass and high-status guy that EVERY girl would obviously want to bang. If you don’t carry yourself in a way that is stone-cold confident and secure, then nobody is gonna believe you’re worth swooning over and you won’t achieve the effect you’re going for. Here’s an example, in every single James Bond movie, Bond seems to magically make every single girl fall in love with him right? Well, that’s because he believes he’s so fucking bad-ass and worthy, that OF COURSE, every girl would fall in love with him. And because he carries himself this way, girls and guys treat him as such. The vibe and presence you project are most often what people will perceive, so make sure it’s fucking epic!

Tip #2: Be laid back and don’t give too much of a reaction to girl’s interest.

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This goes back to what I was saying about James Bond. James Bond always remains, calm, cool, and unreactive in seemingly every situation. You should be doing the same. This is what creates that ‘coolness’ factor that makes girls vie for your attention even more. When a hot girl shows a guy interest, most guys get super excited and return it with EVEN more interest and attention, BUT, the real lady-killer will acknowledge it in a way that doesn’t give too much back to the girl and will treat it like it’s just another day of hot girls trying to get with him. Acknowledge it in a way that shows her you MIGHT be interested, while still leaving her wanting more. This forces her to go out of her way, to keep pursuing you to get it. 

Tip #3: Always be the one to pull away.

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If you guys are texting, you should be the one to end the conversation or leave it on a high note. If you guys are out somewhere at a party or club, you should be the one to pull away after a good night of flirting and dancing and head home. If you guys are on the phone or on FaceTime, you should be the one to hang up and end the conversation first. And when you guys are hanging out or kissing, you should always be the one to pull away and leave first. Not only is this a good way of teasing her and building sexual desire but it’s also crucial for setting the tone that she’s the one who has to chase YOU and compete for your affection instead of the other way around. And this right here, is how you’ll get a girl to fall in love with you.

Tip #4: Be decisive and assertive.

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Now I know I’ve mentioned these two things in the past, but in order to REALLY make girls fall for you, then you need to be as decisive and assertive as you’ve ever been. Girls damn LOVE it when guys take control and make decisions. Too many guys are afraid to make decisions or be assertive because they’re afraid the girl won’t like the plan or idea they propose. This leads to them pussyfooting around the girl and being indecisive and honestly just wasting time. If there is a decision to be made, or control to be taken of a situation, then just make a decision fast and take action right away, if you do it in a confident and laid back manner, then the girl will just follow. Just assume the girl will go with whatever plan of action you propose because most of the time, they’ll be attracted to your decisiveness and follow your lead. Which brings me to my next point.

Tip #5: Treat her as if she’s already in love with you aka assume attraction.

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 I’ve talked about assuming attraction before but this is taking it to a WHOLE other level. You want to assume attraction for a slightly different reason in this context. When you assume the girl is already attracted and into you, you will be more playful, be more aggressive and playful in conversation, and it’ll subconsciously make your flirting game better with her. But more importantly, it’ll keep you in check and prevent you from texting her too much, giving her too much attention, and worst of all, starting to become too needy. This is a problem SO many guys face. They start off strong with a girl, they get her to like them and be really interested, but then they become too comfortable and start to REQUIRE attention and validation from the girl which results in them texting her too much and becoming needy. When you assume and treat her like she’s already in love with you, you’ll be less likely to act needy and seek her approval because you already know she’s into you and don’t need to chase her too much.