Girls are different from guys and instead of working girls physically, you should work them mentally. Girls don’t really require you to put on a show in order to turn them on, but they expect you to be able to put them into the right place psychologically. One thing to remember is that every girl is different and you can’t really follow a formula. BUT, since what I will do is teach you the basic principles you need to know so that you can apply them situationally.
#1 Dominant body language and behavior
Girls LOVE bad boys. One of the things that turn women on is knowing that the guy she’s dealing with is really a MAN. And I mean REALLY a man. So many guys are so shy and scared when it comes to talking to and being with women, so when you’re the exact opposite, it’ll be an instant turn on her for. If you appear dominant and constantly show dominant behavior, your lady will be begging for you. Showing dominant behavior means being a leader, taking the charge and just letting her follow. You should be the one who initiates everything and doesn’t ask for permissions but just goes for what he wants. Women want you to have this mentality in everything you do because it makes them feel safe, secure, and desired. If you’re still unsure of how to do this, then just imagine what a dominant man would do in the situation you’re in, and just do that.
#2 Focus on the overall experience
This tip is too important so, take notes. All of your actions with women should be framed with this principle in mind. Girls are a lot more impressed and satisfied with the overall experience they have when they spend time with you than how you do individual things. Think of it like this, if I had Gordon Ramsay serve you the most amazing Quinoa salad, but it was served to you on a styrofoam plate and a plastic fork, in a fast-food restaurant, how would you feel about the dish? Now think about that same exact Quinoa salad, except it was served to you by a waiter wearing white gloves on a silver platter, in a restaurant with white tablecloths and a live band. Which restaurant experience are you gonna prefer? The second one, exactly.
Girls are the same way, you have to package and serve yourself and all your actions to them in a way that’s smooth, seductive, and all-around awesome. This is why it’s not enough to just be good looking, you have to have a good game, playfully flirt with her, touch her, and make her into you, in every way possible. The ability to do this is what separates guys with a good game from guys with a GREAT game.
#3: Making her feel desired
One thing that never fails is when you really make a girl feel desired. Girls really want to feel desired, especially romantically, because it makes them feel better about their insecurities and when you give them that reassurement, it boosts their confidence and makes them feel a lot more comfortable with you. When you give her that comfort, she will be on a higher energy level, which usually means that she will also be a lot more into whatever you’re doing, which is going to make everything better for you.
#4: Be observant and figure out the specific thing that works on her.
Different girls like different things. Your main girl might LOVE one thing, and your side girl might LOVE something totally different. So it’s your job to experiment and see what actions and behaviors girls like and catering to those preferences. And a shortcut to figuring this out is to just simply ask her. She’ll appreciate you taking initiative and treating her the way she tells you she likes to be treated.
#5: Showing your emotional side
Girls are used to guys talking to them with this constant “I’m an untouchable tough guy” mask on and that’s why girls don’t really get to see guys talk about their feelings or showing vulnerability. When a girl is actually interested in you as a person and it isn’t only some casual, she will really want you to show all of those things and when you do it, chances are it will turn her on because it makes girls feel really special when guys open up about this type of shit. It makes the girl feel like you actually trust her and see her for more than just her looks because otherwise, you wouldn’t be having conversations like that in the first place.
One thing that turns girls on the most is if you are thoughtful and remember little things. Let’s say that you were talking about food and she told you about her favorite restaurant in your area. If you invite her over and surprise her with food from that restaurant before she comes, it will be an instant turn on for her, because it shows that you actually listen to the things that she tells you and that you actually care enough to think about her in a way that’s more than just sexual. This is just an over-simplified example, but you get the idea. And that’s it.