#5 Generation for Relationships
see what we need to recognize the things that we truly want, the things that deeply meaningful the things that are genuinely fulfilling or require patience, they all require patience, they all require work, they all require energy. see the challenges we all want to be with someone who makes us happy when what we need to do is be someone who makes us happy. we sit with our friends discussing the rules but no one even knows what game we’re trying to play because the problem with our generation not wanting relationships is that at the end of the day we actually do.
#4 If you are too clingy in a relationship.
To make sure that you take time and reset today in a conversation together so often so many of our anxieties are actually built on assumptions or misconceptions which can easily be resolved through a simple conversation as early as you can.
#3 If you’re in relationship.
The bigger mistake we make is avoidance something but say nothing, smile and drink the poison at least until that becomes annoying. we tend to avoid these conversations because we’re conscious of the risks of speaking up but unconscious of the risks of not speaking up, none of us should stay in relationships where we’re fighting all the time but we can learn to change how we fight, soften your judgement speak how you’d like to be spoken to affirm before you complain, let your partner know you care to approach the situation with compassion, start with empathy focus on facts, initiate the dialogue, stay open-minded and remember when you’re fighting the real fight is both of you against the problem not both of you against each other.
#2 Why most relationships fail.
The Biggest challenge we have is that we show love to another one that you’re a gifts person you give more gifts if you believe in quality time you give quality time what we need to focus on is what the other person wants and not what we want so think about the person that you love or want to show more love to figure out which language they belong to and try some of these out experiment with them to show them more love, appreciation and encouragement. I guarantee you will increase and strengthen your bond almost immediately and remember this isn’t a technique or a trick this is a genuine conveyance of your love and what you feel about them so give it a go.
#1 What we have got wrong about love.
We experience love when we feel happy. we are in a world where people aren’t self-loved and self-fueled enough to even consider this. The first is getting over your greed and ego. The second is recognizing that you have value and when you serve others there’s a value exchange. And the third, when you are feeling full and over-flowing you can then overflow to others.